Yesterday I was asked a question and it had me thinking all night and the answer I gave him was my honest feelings but it wasn’t good enough for that person. I’ve been asked this several times by this person and last night after the conversation my mind was going over why it keeps being asked. Is this really what this person thinks? I questioned why would anyone even ask me such a thing. Is this what people really see when they look at my life? Well here is my answer and the question to clear things up.
I was asked, Do you ever just wake up and ask why you were dealt such a bad hand in life? I was floored that this person would even think that I was dealt a bad hand. In my mind I was thinking who are you to judge my life and why do you feel I was dealt a bad hand. Yes, I’ve been though some difficult times. I’ve been through a lot more challenges than most people but the hand I was dealt is not a bad one, the hand that was dealt to me is the one I was created for and I feel I’m taking on the challenge just fine.
My answer to him was, NO!! My life is going exactly how it’s suppose to go. I wake up each day and I am thankful I am still here, I am thankful for each day and all the challenges I face. This is my life and the cards I was dealt are mine and I think I’m handling my life just fine. This person kept insisting that I should be upset and hate my life. I choose not to let the difficult times bring me down. I choose to find happiness even when sadness is around the corner. I choose to walk the path I was given and make the best of it. It’s a matter of choice and MY CHOICE to live this life. It’s just that easy for me.
There was a time in my life when I did feel like WHY me and I’ve learned so much along the way that it’s not about that anymore. It’s about making life the best life you could possibly have and just being happy. You create your happiness on the journey of life and if you choose to be sad all the time, life will lead you in the wrong direction. Choose happiness and watch the world flourish before your eyes. Eyes wide open and heart at peace is truly an amazing feeling. My life is mine, don’t try to take it from me you can’t have it.
My motto going forth: Let the path take you on the journey of your life, you are meant to be right where you are. Live happy. Just Live.
So if you feel my life is so bad and you think that you are making it better by pointing out that you think it’s bad, you just lost a little respect from me. I don’t judge the path your on and I would never judge. Maybe you should look at all the trials I’ve been through and how I’ve overcome all of them. I’m a warrior on my path and I’m stronger than most that is why I was given this hand and I can handle it. Could you? I’m holding the Royal Flush and I will beat your hand any day, just try me.
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